If you're wondering whether your loved one's behaviors fit the pattern of sundowning, use this quick guide to identify symptoms, causes and solutions.

TL;DR "Yes, and..." means accepting your loved one's emotional reality instead of arguing with it. You don't have to agree with false facts—you simply avoid creating unnecessary conflict. After validating what they're saying, gently redirect the conversation toward something comforting or enjoyable. This technique often reduces arguments, preserves trust, and makes daily interactions much more pleasant. The goal isn't to prove who's right. The goal is to help your loved one f

TL;DR Therapeutic fibbing is the intentional use of a harmless, compassionate untruth to reduce distress—not manipulate someone with dementia. It may be appropriate when telling the literal truth repeatedly causes fear, grief, or agitation without improving understanding. The best therapeutic fibs focus on providing reassurance, comfort, or redirecting attention. Humor can sometimes accomplish the same goal while creating moments of genuine connection. The goal isn't to win a

One of the most painful and confusing experiences for many caregivers is watching a loved one become angry, irritable, or even aggressive. A person who was once patient and easygoing may suddenly lash out, accuse others of wrongdoing, refuse help, or become upset over seemingly minor situations. When this happens, many caregivers begin asking: Why is my loved one with dementia so angry? The answer is often more complicated than it appears. In many cases, the anger itself is n

Shawnee Canjura, The Dementia Doula One of the hardest parts of being a caregiver or loved one to a person with Alzheimer's is de-escalating situations. It's hard to keep them calm and sometimes it's even harder to keep yourself calm but that's exactly what is needed in order to prevent the argument from turning into an angry or violent outburst. Read below for some of the top techniques for preventing or de-escalating arguments with someone with Alzheimer's. Be their ally Th

5 essential dementia caregiver tips to managing angry outbursts