Question 1

Is dementia caregiver coaching the same as therapy?

Accepted Answer

No. Therapy focuses on diagnosing and treating mental health conditions. Dementia caregiver coaching focuses on practical caregiving guidance, communication strategies, emotional support, and navigating the day-to-day challenges of caring for a loved one with dementia. Many families benefit from both.

Question 2

Who Do You Work With?

Accepted Answer

Yes.

I work with anyone who is supporting a loved one living with dementia, including:
Spouses and partners
Adult children
Siblings
Grandchildren
Other family members
Friends providing significant support
In-home family caregivers
Long-distance caregivers

Whether you're the primary caregiver or simply trying to help someone you love, you're welcome here.

Every family's situation is unique, and coaching is tailored to your specific challenges, questions, and goals.

Question 3

When Should I Reach Out for Dementia Caregiver Coaching?

Accepted Answer

You don't have to wait until you're overwhelmed or in crisis to ask for help.
Many families schedule a session after a new dementia diagnosis, when difficult behaviors begin, when family members disagree about care decisions, or simply because they want practical advice from someone who understands dementia caregiving.
Some people meet with me once to solve a specific problem. Others appreciate ongoing coaching and support as their loved one's needs change over time.

Question 4

What kind of support do you offer for people with dementia?

Accepted Answer

I offer coaching for individuals recently diagnosed with dementia, particularly those in the 'Mild Cognitive Impairment' stage. I provide guidance on securing a happy future, answer questions about diagnosis and long-term care, and help process the complex emotions that come with the diagnosis.

Question 5

Can I Work With You If I Don't Live in Hawaii?

Accepted Answer

Yes. I work with dementia caregivers and families throughout the United States via secure virtual consultations.
Whether you're caring for a loved one across town or coordinating care from another state or country, coaching sessions are available by video or phone, allowing you to receive personalized guidance no matter where you live.

Question 6

Do you offer direct care services for dementia patients?

Accepted Answer

No, I do not provide direct care services. As a doula, I coach caregivers and family members on how to best support their loved ones with dementia and avoid unnecessary hardships. I am not a home caregiver or nurse.

Question 7

Do I Need a Referral to Work With The Dementia Doula?

Accepted Answer

No. You do not need a physician's referral, diagnosis, or prior approval to schedule a session.
Many families reach out when they first notice memory changes, after a dementia diagnosis, or when they're struggling with difficult behaviors at home. Whether you're caring for a parent, spouse, or another loved one, you're welcome to schedule an appointment whenever you feel you could benefit from guidance or support.

Question 8

Where is your service located?

Accepted Answer

I conduct remote sessions from Oahu, Hawaii. You can attend sessions from anywhere in the world over video call (Google Meets) or a phone call.

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